Divorce Grounds - Is this considered cheating and grounds for a divorce?

Is this considered cheating and grounds for a divorce?

Is creating multiple fake email accounts (even changing your name) to obtain nude pictures and other types of emails from other women (and sending them real pictures of yourself just none with your wedding band on)? As well as pretending to not be married when asked by these other women (telling them you are single). Is this considered cheating and grounds for a divorce?

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Yes.
It isnt rite and its rather disrespectful and harsh to youre partner, most would be deeply hurt if there other half was doing such activities...i think that this reall could cause much harm to any rs...doing such tihngs really shows how little your partner means to you..
Two things: 1. No sex, no cheating. Doesn't mean one shouldn't feel betrayed or emotionally hurt, but without the sex, it is technically not cheating, it is just dishonest and disrespectful of the person. 2. ANYTHING is grounds for divorce. All that is required is that you feel betrayed and unhappy and do not want to be married anymore.
Your husband is a piece of elephant crap!!!. Repeat elephant crap. Get away from him and take ALL of his money in the divorce. Elephant crap. Why did you marry him?
anything that your spouse does to break your trust and to sabotage your feelings is considered cheating. your trust has been severly damaged and it's not healthy at all. get out before any further emotional damage comes from. i am divorced and it was the best thing i could do for myself.
I would definitely consider that to be cheating if my guy was doing that. And yes, grounds for divorce, no point in being married to someone who has no loyalty to his wife, and wants to show his dangly bits to all and sundry, whilst deceiving his wife. The very fact that he is using fake names & secret email addresses PROVES that he knows it is wrong. Even HE knows that he's cheating. He's just hoping he wont get busted. To Ronalachula - I feel your pain! Ive been where you are, men lying on sites, saying they are single when they are not.. and why.. to encourage single women to contact them. Lying and betraying both the wife, and the plaything. As far as Im concerned, any kind of sexual stimulation / satisfaction that is gained from another woman in any way shape or form, is cheating. To prove the point... women... do the same thing, and see what reaction you get from your guy...lol. I would bet you a million dollars that HE would say that YOU are cheating.
There are many forms of cheating and I personally would consider this one of them. I don't understand why someone would pretend to not be married and be talking to other women and trying to obtain their nude pictures. Maybe talking it out or counseling before jumping into a divorce, but if that is what you feel is right for you, that is all that really matters.
not even close!
yes it is. and it would certainly make the wife look more favorable to the courts!
I suppose that would depend on whether you consider flirting cheating. I personally do because one thing leads to another. In my opinion chatting with some one online is no different than chatting with them on the phone. Sending nude pics of your self is definitely crossing the line.
Unless you're the type of person who needs to actually catch your spouse IN BED before you'll feel you've had enough, I'd say it's grounds.
I would say it is considered cheating on some level. I mean a happily married person would not be doing this...unless he/she is looking for a divorce. Let's say your wife caught u and read and saw those email, sshe would definitely say u r cheating, even though there hasnt been any physical interaction. Not to mention she would be hurt bigg time... this tells her and makes her feel she's not enoughh...plus she completely loses trust in u which would most likely lead to a divorce.
YES!!!!!
Mr taco is absolutely right. If he stayed a t a girls house and slept with her too is also cheating. even if there wasnt any sex. it's betraying your trust.!!!
Yes
Not really cheating, but a bad thing to do. Sounds like he has problems. Why all the hateful women out there tho that divorce isn't enough, want to take all his money. Go make your own damn money. Our legal system is messed up when it comes to this subject.
some people may think it's not considered cheating, but i do, my boyfriend of 7 years who i am 8 months pregnant to, made himself a myspace page and put on there that he was single, i've asked him for a while now to change it, he keeps saying " i cant believe ur getting so mad about that, i'll never meet those girls they live far!" but i look it like this, i want to be with somebody who is proud to be with me, not hiding it from the world, if he wanted to have a myspace page, he shouldn't have put that he was single, and he should have at least 1 picture of us on it, but no, nothing! then yesterday i found out he was on this website called fling.com basically it's personal ads of people looking for sex, that did it for me, i can't have sex because of complications with my pregnancy, and besides all that, y is he so interested in other naked girls, am i not enough? so i decided to tell him it's time for us to move on, i can't live like this anymore, it is considered cheating to me, and i refuse to be cheated on, i'm too good to him, and i know there are other people out there that would be proud to tell the world that i am their girlfriend, and watch how mad he's gonna be when he sees me and the next person i'm with together on a myspace page, he's gonna regret all he did, and let me just say the internet is really a home wrecker! (not all of it, but u know what i mean)
You are treating yourself like an idiot, but don't worry, this happens quite often when people remain in bad relationships for long periods of time. You have spent so much time dealing with inappropriate behavior, that your internal barometer for what is acceptable or unacceptable is malfunctioning. What you need to do, is step outside the situation. Think about before you were in a relationship with this individual; back to before your common sense was eaten away by emotional dependency on the relationship. What would you have done if one of your closest friends asked you this same question? Exactly. After you stopped gasping in shock and disbelief at the fact that your friend would even entertain tolerating this behavior for more than three seconds, you'd tell her to get away from this piece of shit as fast as possible. The truth is, however, in all likelyhood, that you won't do that. You'll keep finding ridculously outlandish and implausible excuses for his behavior, because you can't tell yourself the truth. You know the truth, but you can't face it, because it's too painful, and once you face it you will either have to leave, or endure the pain and embarassment of accepting the behavior.....which will NOT change. So. Save yourself the pain, humiliation, and the cost of therapy (which is for people who can't tell themselves the truth in the first place) and RUN LIKE HELL.
Mr Taco hit it right on the head i n fact i'll go a bit more you do not need ANY grounds what so ever for divorce as mot states are no fault divorce states so divorce at will everyone else does
i say yes. what a pig. he's a asshole. divorce his ass and find someone a lot better.
Technically it isn't cheating, but that is what it is going to lead to. Might as well cut to the chase and leave before it comes to that.
Yes, it could be considered cheating. You could file a fault based divorce and use the emails, pictures, etc. for proof of his adulterous behavior. (Fault based divorces require proof) I recommend you confront this immediately, it seems he's pretty close to actually being physical with another woman and you don't want to be involved in that. Its unsafe (health wise) for you.
cheating... lieing... and IMMORAL. grounds for divorce.... perhaps.